| You’ve
probably heard the old one-liner: “He was too poor to pay
attention!”
Maybe he was poor because he didn’t pay attention!
Does the following conversation sound like a meeting you’ve
attended?
“Just a reminder: the luncheon seminar for department managers
will start at 11:30 on Tuesday the 23rd. We’re holding it
at the east side Hilton this year. Any questions?”
“Is the 23rd a Thursday?”
“Are supervisors invited?”
“Is it a breakfast, like last year?”
“Is that the downtown Hilton, or the one on the east side?”
You only have to attend a few meetings anywhere to realize that
listening is a lost art. However, in the workplace, attentiveness
is expected from all employees. Listening well is not a natural
trait, but a skill that anyone can master.
Here are a few pointers on having effective listening skills
and becoming a skilled listener:
- Focus on the speaker. If you’re thinking about
something else, you’re not listening.
- Involve your body.
Sit up straight. Look at the speaker. Nod your agreement. Jot
notes.
- Make appropriate and occasional comments, but don’t
dominate the give-and-take of a meeting or conversation. If you’re
thinking about your next response, you’re not listening.
And remember, your comment is only worth the same two cents that
your colleagues’ comments are worth.
- Manage your time well. You can’t listen if you’re
worried about something else. If all of the responsibilities
of the day are scheduled and accounted for, you can focus on
each item in turn without having your mind wander to the next
crisis.
Becoming a good listener takes practice and preparation, but it’s
a skill that employers notice and respect. Pay attention, because
in the future your listening skills just might pay off!
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